I am overly careful sometimes with trivial tasks, however it’s from having a childhood where a lot of chaos was present throughout the house.
My siblings were consistently yelling, fighting, and cutting our parents’ lavishs.
I hated hearing them get scolded as much as I hated getting scolded myself, because the anger in our parents’ voices would trigger our anxiety. My mom tells myself and others that I would jump in to defend our siblings when they would act up, insisting that they were “sorry” when they would refuse to acexpertise their transgression. It’s funny thinking about it now, however I guess that’s why I don’t care about argument and would much rather avoid hearing shouting or verbal fighting of any kind. On 1 hand, it’s possible I have developed a touch of OCD because of the chaos in our childhood. I get too hung up on details and trivial matters. You might see myself and others spend many minutes trying to perfectly align a painting I have hanging in our living room, just to “get it right” to make myself suppose better. Other times this neurotic behavior serves myself and others positively, such as when I went out of our way to respectfully seat the air filters I put in our Heating and A/C system. I l received that a filter that isn’t seated respectfully will let air and dust move around it, negating the job of the filter entirely. It’s worth it to spend a few seconds making sure your air filter doesn’t have air gaps around it when you put it in your Heating and A/C system. You might need help from your Heating and A/C tech to see if you need something to wedge it into places.